Cheating on a spouse with another woman has become so much easier with the advent of the latest technology. Even if there is one speck of doubt in your heart about your husband, do not ignore it. Read on to explore the most prominent signs of a cheating husband:
He’s Hooked Up Mobile Internet To His Phone, Even Though He Didn’t Do It Before
One of the many prominent cell phone cheating signs that your husband is cheating on you is that he will now hook up mobile internet to his phone. Even though he was not near to this behavior before, he will do it now. Be sure to follow the pattern of his internet usage. When you are spying, make it a point that he doesn’t understand.
Your Husband Has Started Spending More Time On The Phone And Online
The First Red Flag is his mobile hours. If he is cheating on the phone, he will spend more time than ever on his phone. Even if you are around him, he will ignore you just to be on the phone. He will even compromise on important tasks and duties to be around his phone.
He Got a Separate Phone Or Sim Card
If he is cheating on you, he must get things hidden at all costs. One of the easiest ways to do it is to get a separate sim card. Most cheating husbands get a separate sim card for themselves that you are not aware of. This is basically to stay out of the reach of anyone.
His Password Or Fingerprint On His Phone Has Changed
Has your husband protected his phone with a new password? Or has he now locked his phone with fingerprints? Then be sure he is up with something fishy and wants to hide it from you at all costs. It will seem like he is protecting some bank vault. All of these are grave warning signs he’s cheating on his phone.
He Has Strange Names On His Contact List
Off late have you been observing calls and messages from contacts of some weird name? It could be that they have got some new friends or colleagues but most of the time, cheating husbands will save the name of their lovers with some strange unknown names such that no one even if they see the contact will suspect them.
Your Husband Is Getting Calls And Texts From Unknown Numbers
If you have already started doubting your husband, it is time to observe his messages and calls. If you truly find that some uncanny numbers are repeatedly calling or texting them, it is time you treat it as a red flag.
He Is Being Too Careful With His Phone
After all, he is cheating on you through the phone. The phone knows all his secrets and will put him in a bad status is revealed. Hence he will be overprotective about his phone. It may be that he even carries his phone to the washroom with him.
He Regularly Deletes His Messages And Calls Logs
Messages and call logs may be valid proof of his infidelity and he has to delete them at all costs. If you observe that your husband has an immaculate call log list or message inbox, be sure of something wrong happening. He never wants to be caught cheating on the phone.
Your Husband Is On All Social Media Accounts And Is Constantly On Them
In this age of digital betrayal, everything usually starts over social media. Your husband has probably met his love partner on any of these social media accounts. If you find your husband on social media accounts and a bit too active, you may talk with him to find out what is going on. He will have accounts on all platforms like Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and OnlyFans.
He Leaves The Room When He Is On The Phone
He will be uncomfortable having his conversations in front of you. After all, he is cheating on you with someone else. If you observe that he does not feel comfortable speaking on phone with or leaving the room whenever he is on call, it is quite clear that he does not want you to hear the conversation because that will expose him.
He Has Pictures Of Another Woman On His Phone
If you ever get a chance, quickly look up into his phone’s gallery. You may find out pictures of unknown women on his phone. You may or may not know these women. Also, try to understand what kind of relationship he may hold with the concerned woman by looking at the type of pictures that he has saved on his phone.
He Acts Nervous When You Pick Up His Cell Phone
One incident that a cheating husband never wants to happen is his wife picking up his call. Cheating husbands and cell phones are a deadly mix. Even if you pick up the call for some reason, he will look super tensed and anxious in the fright that his secrets might get disclosed
He’s Constantly Texting Someone On Whatsapp And Viber
Whatsapp is the safest way to communicate with someone because the messages are end to end encrypted. So if your husband is always connected on WhatsApp with someone, it could be his love partner. He may also chat on Viber. So off late if he is constantly on any of these messaging platforms, there is a possibility that he is holding an affair with someone.
How Do You Know If He’s Cheating On The Phone?
To find out whether your husband is cheating while on the phone or not, you have to crucially observe his behavior, mobile usage pattern, and any differences in behavior. Does he gets irritated and yells at you if you get near his phone? Or does he dislikes when you inquire about something fishy on his phone?
Here are the top 4 steps for catching cheaters on cell phones:
Connect a Wiretap On Your Phone
Wiretapping on your phone can help you get access to the information of who your husband is calling and what they are discussing. So you can know what he is up to. Find out the signs your partner is cheating and take action accordingly because no one deserves to be cheated on.
Download And Install The Spy App For iPhone Or Android
Spy Apps are super-efficient to hack someone’s phone and find out all the details. Install a well-to-do spy app on your phone and hack your husband’s phone. You can now have all the details about their calls, messages, texts, social media comments, and even their web browser history.
Hire a Professional
If you are unable to handle it all by yourself, hire a professional. They will help you by keeping an eye on your husband. At the same time, they will also help you hack your husband’s phone technically and get all the data to prove that he is cheating on the phone. They can help you with both Apple iPhone iOS and Android platforms.
Get Access To Your Phone At Any Cost
If your husband is cheating on the phone, you need to get access to it through hook or crook. This is because you need to verify whether your doubt is logical or your husband is nocent. Also, if he is cheating, all the evidence to prove his guilt will be there on that phone.
What To Do If All The Signs Of His Cheating On The Phone Are The Same?
A Relish Relationship Report says that more than 55% of people experience physical and mental cheating in relationships. With the advent of smartphones, it has become easier to stay connected with people and also to cheat your spouse when you feel like they are not being enough.
If you find out the signs he is cheating on his phone and you confirm that your husband has been cheating on you over the cell phone, it is time you confess to him. Let him know that you have already figured out about his infidelity and he can no more get away with you. Problems might be at an initial stage or an advanced stage.
First, try to find out how far the affair has extended. If it has gone too far there is no use fighting or arguing. If it is at an initial stage, you may still try to get your husband back, talk to him and sort things out. But if you find that he no more loves you it is useless to beg for his togetherness.
Daniela Gilbert is a relationship psychologist and author aged 31. She has a degree in clinical psychology from the University of Southern California and a social psychology Master’s and Ph.D. from the University of California, Santa Barbara. She is currently a postdoctoral fellow at UCSB.
